Saturday, August 21, 2010

Picky With Friends

I am not the social guy, I do not like to chit chat with people whom I do not personally know. For me, friends are not someone who you'll just need for others to say that you are not a loner or that you are popular or the everybody's friend type of guy. A friend for me is someone who knows you very well, someone who'll stand by you, fight for what you think is reasonable and slaps you in the face for anything that you're doing wrong. That's how I am. I may be with a person for a long time, but you can always see whether we're close or not. It's not about the length but the experiences that you and your friends have undergone together. To evolve into better people. I must say that I look into the character of my friends. I will befriend you even if everyone says that you are some pervert who stares like a killer but in reality a gentleman compared to others. You may be the loudest mouth in the class but the perfect listener when I have a problem or when I'm sad. Not everyone is perfect. But everyone has that unique characteristic that lure other people to their company. Everyone is different but it is the respect for each other that binds them closer, find your similarities and respect each others differences. I stand by my friends because they weren't just some people I talk to or hang out with, but I chose them because of their characteristics and because of that, when somebody talks bad about them which I know is not true, I am affected. All I can say, do not judge other people's friends by their faces or actions in front of you because you were never there to know them for such prejudices to be said...

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  1. nice gles! That's absolutely true! :)

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  2. yep that's so true dont judge a book by its cover... cover it first then you judge it hahaha... I like being a loner but I make friends along my life. friends that I may keep for life, share experiences, & friends whom I fell in love with hahaha its nice to reminisce the past hahaha

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